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Are You struggling With Family Problems??
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In the mid of our perceived endless problems, some
questions just pop in our minds and keep revolving like:
"What did I do to myself? Why did I choose this partner?
Why did I marry in the first place? How can I live with this
person forever?
And many more. Sometimes it is important to remind
ourselves with some basics before really taking our next
step. Start your tour here.
 | | Why do we need "FAMILIES"?
| | | What is Family?
| | | Where does the challenge come from?
| | | What may drive us to build a family?
| | | What holds us back from making a family? | | | |
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What is "FAMILY"?
"Family" is the foundational organization upon
which; depends all nations' glory.
Family is the basic organization of the whole
universe.
Looking back to other creatures than human
beings; we all know that any creature cannot
live alone. Any of YOU who have a pet knows
that it soon needs to find its mate and start
building a family otherwise it will eventually
die.
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Why do we need "FAMILIES"?
Building a family and being a member of a family
has long been done as part of the built in need to
belong somewhere. It is the individual's need for
security and safety, the need for support, the need
for power, the need for status, self esteem
affiliation, and goal achieving.
When people fail to belong to a family or enjoy the
real feelings associated with belonging to a family,
they tend to search for other alternatives, like
belonging to a group of friends, a work group,
club, or an organization.
All creatures have this built in system of needing to
belong; and all strive on the continuity of their own
kind.
This built in system is what keeps the kind of each
creature. So just imagine if any type of creature
has decided to stop making a family, some years
later this creature is history.
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Where does the challenge come from?
For us; human beings, we have a more complicated
story. Our mind interferes with
what we were naturally born or created to do.
Our mind; the greatest gift of all, with all its power
(that is not yet totally revealed by
science), storage capacity, ability to analyze,
enthusiasm for experimenting new
trials and new discoveries, new challenges and new
experiences, sometimes fail to
simply help us lead a happy life with our family.
Are these sporadic cases? Statistics say no.
YOU can all detect for yourself,
Wherever YOU live YOU can visit:
www.divorcereform.org ,
www.DivorceMagazine.com ,
www.nationmaster.com
to see the divorce rate in your country.
For some countries there are no statistics, so just
keep your ears and eyes open;
Can YOU see all around YOU families leading
happy lives?
Do YOU see those families around YOU have the
right seeds, soil and conditions to grow new
families that can also be happy?
If yes, please enjoy your blessed environment and
share with us your opinion by clicking here
What do YOU think helped those families survive in
our materialistic world?
How do they enjoy the gift of having or belonging to
a family?
How they plan to transmit their expertise to their
following generations to lead happy families too?
We really appreciate your help.
If not, then YOU belong with us to a group or
family that believes something is missing,
and that our role is to dig it up, reveal it and reach
formulas to upgrade it so that it is compatible with
our era.
Over the years we lose some ingredients of the
recipes to having a happy family.
Reasons may include that we took such a process
for granted, and we are not giving it
the same importance, attention and effort as we do
to our careers.
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What may drive us to build a family?
| | Is it the desire for an intimate relation with a | | | soul mate?Is it the need to be fulfilled
emotionally?
| | | Is it the desire for having children?
| | | Is it the desire for freedom in applying our own | | | thoughts and concepts in our new families that
we see our parents failed to use, in search for
happiness?
| | | Is it the desire to keep belonging to our group of | | | friends who are all now married and have
children and this is our only way to stay
compatible with them?
| | | Is it the fear of aging and ending up alone | | | when everybody else is busy with his own life
and family?
| | | Is it the need to share expenses of life?
| | | Is it the society pressure that believes this is the | | | norm of life and doing otherwise makes YOU
look weird?
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Please feel free to add more if YOU have more
reasons as why we go through the process of having a
family, please contact us by Clicking here
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What holds us back from making a family?
Does any of these resonate with YOU?
Fear of responsibility.
Fear of failure.
Fear of commitment.
Fear of losing our identity, freedom, money,..
Fear of the unknown.
Please join with us your opinion if YOU have more
reasons what keeps us from making families Click
here
So, it is mainly "FEAR".
If factors that drive us to build a family are stronger
than our fears or our resistance to change a state
that we know with a state that we don't know, then
we turn out to make a family.
What happens next??
If we are lucky enough, we live happily ever after.
(Please send us your success stories by Clicking
here as we all are looking forward for hope)
If we are among the numbers stated in the statistics,
we end up with a life that we don't enjoy.
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Do YOU want to overcome going through a tight
spot?
Do YOU really want to watch out for your coming
major step and make sure YOU don't take the
wrong path?
Do YOU want to take it easy on yourself when
going through a new experience?
Do YOU need to share your opinions, thoughts,
and fears without being judged or laughed at?
If any of the above resonates with YOU,
YOU need a COACH.
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You deserve to be HAPPY
You deserve to ENJOY your life
Take action NOW
Hire a COACH to help you OUT
Start living the life of your DREAMS
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