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Success Story from : Name: M.S. Job: Electrical Engineer Title: IT Manager Age: 35 Gender: Male 1. My Personal Life: With My Spouse: I am married for about 10 years, through most of these years I was dealing with my wife by imitating my parents (Follow by example) and I was totally ignorant of how to deal with your spouse in a scientific way taking the difference between men and women into consideration. But after my dearest friend Yasmin gave me a lot of advises supported by a book “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”, I changed my way in treating my wife and it now reflects a good relationship instead of regular conflicts and fights. With My Children I have two sons, and as I mentioned in point number 1, I was dealing with them by imitating my parents, but Yasmin gave me a book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and Children are from Heaven" to understand how children think and deal with them in a correct way. 2. My Bigger Family With My Sister There was a problem between my sister and her husband and this problem was exaggerated and came near to divorce and I took Yasmin`s opinion about how to deal with this problem, and she gave me a cassette set mentioning this issue to give them to both my sister and her husband so that they can listen to it together, and this made a great difference in their life and now the relationship between them is good. My Parents There were many problems between my parents and the situation was also coming close to be solved by divorce and when I told Yasmin about these problems, she opened my eyes about the Ice berg, so I took the appropriate actions to solve the problem regarding this issue, and now matters are going fine. 3. In my character: Yasmin gave me some comments about not to judge people, only give them advice and do not wait for any “Thank you”. It made a great difference because I changed from someone who may hate people because they do mistakes (from my point of view) to a one who is eager to make all people better and closer to ALLAH. Yasmin taught me to always deep think in ALLAH's creation (birds, tree, flowers and many other creatures) and this habit made a great difference in my life and increased the level of faith in myself and made me feel very close to ALLAH.
This also was a backbone in my business development; I was assigned to make a presentation to introduce a new software to our organization, and this software is very complicated and I was confused "From where can I start the presentation and at the same time how can I break the ice between our staff and the new system"
And it was a great introduction by showing how the system and the staff are the two wings of our organization that are both necessary to develop our business and without any of them, business can not be developed. This presentation was a bottleneck in the success of the new software, but it was great by using this introduction to catch the audience attention with a simple and vivid example. At work • I was in a great hesitation of how to deal with my assistants in informing them about the annual raise but Yasmin gave me an advice to deal with this issue with secrecy and make a sort of competition between my stuff to get the title of best achiever. • There was a great help from Yasmin to me to improve the quality of our coworkers by teaching them how to effective communicate with each other, it took a great effort from us to prepare a presentation talking about effective communication skills and also it was great. Thanks to Yasmin for all the efforts she exerted to make my life happier Again thanks to Yasmin for her efforts, advice, support and caring .
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